Right and wrong ways of getting joy or pleasure

Some people get happiness or gratitude by helping others, whereas some get pleasure by confusing or by not helping others or when they see others in problems.

Unlike Western countries majority of Indians don’t depend a lot on technology or softwares like GPS systems or Maps. Many Indians don’t hesitate to ask strangers for direction when required to reach a specific location.

Some times people looking for direction are lucky to get very helpful people who walk with them till the destination. Some helpful people explain the directions to be reached precisely with land-marks. Some speak about the right direction to be reached in short. At times these noble helpful people may get some type of joy & satisfaction.

Conversely there are some people who get happiness when they see others in confusion or in trouble as it gives them some feeling of superiority. There are many people who purposely give wrong information or directions when asked. When these dodgy people see others in search of a direction go next to them & even without knowing the right direction, confidently tell anything that comes in their mind. Moreover they even don’t hesitate in sharing their wrongful act amongst their friends & motivate their friends to do the same.

It just shows that some humans don’t have respect or sensitivity for their own species. In my opinion it can be due to the lack of understanding skills or maybe because some people have lost morals & sanity.

The helpful people get joy by helping & their joy will be followed by more joy as they will continue helping & they’ll keep getting opportunities to help others whereas the dodgy people may not have pleasure always & they may not be able to dodge people all the time. Thus their pleasure won’t be followed by pleasure.  Sometimes they may even scolded or punishment them for their wrongful act. Thus in my opinion it’s always nice to be righteous even if the path is difficult.

I believe that obstacles & impediments people learn their mistakes & become mature. It helps them understand what helplessness is & distinguish between right & wrong. Wish these wrongful people start putting themselves into a helpless person’s situation before giving him/her wrong instructions or directions.